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What is important in a relationship to a man

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Men are often reluctant to talk about their needs in intimate relationships. We need frequent reassurance about ourselves, our career paths, our efficacy as partners, our sexual prowessand our attractiveness among other things. I have countless male clients telling me every month that their partners rarely let them know what they like about them. Why not just have more of a good thing? So ladies, let your praise loose.

Tell your man exactly what you find attractive about him.

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Let him know what physical features of his are your favourites. Tell him how attractive you find it when he says something a certain way, when he accomplishes something, or when he takes you on a date. If he feels like you disapprove of him, his career, or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you. Men and women both connect through sex and communication, but generally, women connect better through communication and men connect better through sex.

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Does this mean that men need to have sex with their intimate partners every day in order to feel connected? Men, more often than not, connect through indicators of sexual access just as much as they do through sex.

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Often, a man will initiate sex just to make sure that you are still sexually available to him. This lack of awareness around women needing to connect through words and men needing to connect through sex can sometimes turn into an unfortunate and rapid downward spiral. Talk with your partner and ask what specifically helps them feel the most loved so you can avoid these unintentional standoffs.

From a very young age, men are taught to avoid appearing weak at all costs. He can expose the cracks in his armour and allow his partner to help him heal. Just as women need to slowly open up sexually within a relationship, men open up over time emotionally.

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If you push him away or are unable to be nurturing when he needs it the most, he will no longer trust you with his emotions. He will remove himself somewhat from the relationship.

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Author Deborah Tannen has written brilliantly on the masculine and feminine divide between independence and intimacy masculine being primarily drawn towards independence and the feminine toward intimacy. Within all of my relationships and the vast majority of my clients, I consistently see that it is the feminine-associated female partner that wants more time spent What is important in a relationship to a man and the masculine-associated male partner wanting more time apart.

There is no perfect balance to be found here. This will always be a balancing act of closeness and separateness. But rest assured, suffocating a man either by failing to allow him free time or with overly jealous behaviour is the fastest way to end a relationship.

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Men need breathing room in a relationship. We need time for our hobbies, time with our friends, and time to toil away on our projects to feel fulfilled. Traditionally, when women or the feminine associated partner needed to solve a problem, they would go further into the tribe — connecting with close friends and family and discussing their issues.

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Conversely, when men have a problem to solve, they would leave the tribe to be alone with their thoughts. So let him roam. Leave him to his own devices. A man will be that much happier for you to receive him when he returns, knowing that you trust both him and the strength of your bond enough to let him have his space.


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